Life Fading away 

FeaturedLife Fading away 

Generally we all have some plans, some goals in life, there are many plans like plan A,B,C etc, because nothing’s certain, its better to have a backup plan so that you feel secure whether it’s about your future,studies or something else, but what happens when your plans start failing, one after another and one day you’re left with no plans, you don’t know what to do and how to do anymore, you’re stuck, isolated, like a frozen tree in winter, Everything seems to fade away, darkness overcomes, but there’s always light , life goes on, a door closes, another one opens, another new plan is introduced, you start working on it in hope of catching up with your previous plans.
Hope is what keeps us going

What’s hope? Seeing better days, Finding yourself in better situations,its hard but it’s what keeps us going.

Dont Lose Hope

Dont wait for the times to change, get up, pick yourself up and change it yourself.

People like weather.

The world’s population is about 7 billion and we are one of the 7 billion people, yeah that’s right. Its not easy to stand out when you are competing with 7 billion people, all different from each other in skill set, intelligence, creed or color but still have that 1 thing in common, humanity. Sometimes this common feature or what you call character  of human beings  is not be to found in humans, would you call someone human who doesn’t have that 1 thing in common that every human on this planet has? Life is about experiences and with population like that you are bound to experience human interactions, not like you can live all your life without interacting with other people, people are of many kind just like i mentioned earlier but today i wanna about

“PEOPLE LIKE WEATHER”

The successful path towards a nation’s prosperity

If we look at the west and all the well developed countries leading the world, we get to see the success in every aspect of life.

What is it that they are doing differently to be affluent?

What is the key to their success?

Over the years/Throughout our lives, we have experienced that only knowledge and education have made it possible for the human race to be as successful as we are now, but if we look at the success of human race globally,its unbalanced, not every country around the globe is fortunate enough the see the success the west is striving for.

For instance i would like to mention especially the middle east and the South East Asia, the people living in these regions are not fortunate enough to get quality education and by that i mean the kind of education that a nation needs to prosper in the world and to compete with the world.

The differences between the educational system of Pakistan and America.

Well for starters you would think that its stupid to compare the educational system of Pakistan and America or the west but actually its not, Sir Syed Ahmed Khan back in 1875 made a college named Mohammedan Anglo-Oriental College which was based on the educational system of the Great Britain, Why did he do that? because he saw what we have not able to see till now that the education we are providing to our youth is no way as good as the education they provide to their youth.

The question is whats wrong with our educational system?

Just to calm you down, its not completely defective, What is education for? Is it to pass the exams and get a high GPA and eventually a degree? NO! its not, where we hand our youth the books to memorize everything that is printed in it without teaching them the real purpose of the knowledge and education, we tell them that getting a High GPA is everything you have to do to be successful and indulge them into this negative sort of mindset.

No application of education and knowledge

Where we can actually tell them to use the knowledge written in the books for not only to pass the exams but to use it in real life for Research and actually use their minds not only to memorize whats written in the books but also to think and think what they can do with the part of knowledge they have, because not only you get to see the application of the laws of physics and the chemical reactions that take place in chemistry, you also memorize the entire process and hence you don’t actually need to sit down and learn it all by heart at once.

We need to understand that the learning process we have preferred is going to produce machines which store data and information but no scientists and people who can actually go on to invent something new because that’s what they are taught to do. Memorize everything.

Why is that despite of having a degree a lot people are struggling to get jobs, because the employers want them to actually apply them selves to situations and use their knowledge to good affect and they don’t want them to learn everything in books and prepare them selves for an exam, because that’s what we are taught to do all our lives.

With literally having no idea of its applications.

We are far behind the rest of world.

Still we choose to not look at the world to better our selves.

The major difference between the educational system of west and Pakistan is that “the study pattern over their is different, Over here the education is based on the books but in america its based on the researches” – Says Dania ( a 16 year old Pakistani resident who visited John’s Hopkins University in America)

Only Time

Only Time

Time, What is time? There is a right time for everything, Rushing things wont help, Cause you don’t govern it, its all about managing it
Time has supposed to play a very important part in your life, its all about managing it,and manage it smartly and cleverly because if you waste it,

Time will waste you
FAST

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People who have to managed it well are supposed to be more  successful than the ones who wasted it, or got wasted,

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Time knows everything, you just have to wait for the right moment, it teaches you lessons that you can’t learn from any other way, it’s about learning from that quickly, because Time doesn’t give you many chances,but if you get one, you should be ready to latch at it so you gotta fix your mistakes and move it, Roll with it, so that it doesn’t roll over you, you gotta keep up with the pase, i remember that famous quote

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Time is Money

” its is actually the most valuable treasure you can ever get, and the good thing about it is Everyone get it, but you’ve gotta utilize it properly, like if you don’t know how to spend the money cleverly even tho you have a whole treasure of it,

One day you’ll eventually be broke

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The Everlasting Autumn

The Everlasting Autumn

The season in which usually the leaves shed and the trees become deciduous, waiting for the spring to get their leaves back, but only the branches which are attached to the tree will have spring, the ones which are broken will have ever lasting autumn, they will never be green again, just like us, if we are in link with life, a hope, we have a chance to see better days, not giving up on life, sticking with tree even if it’s deciduous, there is a great chance that it will be green again, even if your life is not a life worth living for, but its just autumn, you will see better days if you stick with it, and wait for the autumn to pass away, I remember a Quote of ”

Allama Iqbal

“پيوستہ رہ شجر سے ، اميد بہار رکھ
Stick with the tree and hope for the spring

Always remember the best is yet to come.

Determination Or Opportunity

Determination Or Opportunity

What does it takes to achieve your goals in life, to be successful, Is it Opportunity? , millions never had it, Or is it Determination? I ill go with the determination, if a person is well determined, ambitious and he sticks to it long enough, he will get it, or if person has no determination, no goals, opportunities will come by but he won’t be able to latch at them, Life is like a race, some people tire after a while and get interested into other things, the person who keep pushing himself on and on, and keep moving forward will win, let me tell you a similar event based on a true story i read recently by

Lord Dunsany

A young fellow just like many of us, with extraordinary ambition, to be a Court acrobat but there was no post for it at that time, he was a pretty good athlete, Won high jumps, hurdles and races at school level, Many of you will think that he had an opportunity because he was born an athlete but you don’t always remain an athlete all your life, With no post for a court acrobat, he  couldn’t do much, with both parents  long dead, so no support at all, opportunities were hard to come by, but he didn’t lose hope, and went into politics, they all did at that time, and went on to become one of the most impressive politician, now he had the power to preach his ambitious openly, and was appointed the first Court acrobat, What did he do? He had an ambition, with Zero Opportunity, but he was well determined,

Creating your own opportunity

, he created his own opportunity and achieved his goals from whatever means he did, but he never left it behind, and moved on, and he got the reward for it. Never lose hope, Be determined, You will eventually get it,

Never give up on your dreams.

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The Reasons Behind Academic Failures

A numerous number of people in this world fail to achieve what they are capable of, the question is what are the causes behind all these failures, i remember a lesson i read recently about academic failure of students “Why boys fail in college” by

Herbert E Hawkins

Most of them are more than capable of achieving alot in this world but are shot down and torned apart, Heart broken because of  continuous failures, Then there is the Family pressure on you for doing well, all the expectations can also get you in the corner, So what should we do to not face such situations in life, Its all about your mindset. The way you look at things, What does it takes to do well in academics?  There are plenty of things that you can do to do well in every aspect of life, few of them are given below
1- Good Financial Background.
2- Putting enough effort.
3- Getting Maximum output in Minimum Time.

Lets take a slight look at these matters.

1-Financial Crisis has been the most common factor in the failure of students, One cannot simple afford the Fees structure of modern education,a research has shown that the children of a Rich person have 80% more chances of success than the children of poor

2-Not putting enough effort in studies has been the most abundant cause in student failure, Many students think that they can do well by putting the effort they did in school and got good results, Well this is not the case in college,
Overconfidence has been the most popular and disastrous reason behind many failure, and when you don’t get the results you expected, that’s a big shock for a common person,and sometimes it can cause a complete mental issues too, Cause they simply can’t take it..

3-Lack of concentration is another one of the most important cause, most students try their best to do well, but they can’t concentrate for a longer period of time, which is necessary at higher levels, they get sleepy, and their mind starts wandering here and there, rather than to concentrate on the topic, and most of time is wasted in that, they spend time and even try their best but the achievement is quite low, these habits are quite difficult to remove, it takes immense amount of time to eradicate such habits,

 

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The Lady in White

The Lady in White

Your mind has many great capabilities, One of them is
imagination. And the other important feature is to think like no other organism or specie in this world can, Ever thought about the purpose of life? What happens after you die?Let me give you a most formal example of a life of a common person, First step is obviously to get into this world,then comes the drill of education, half of the life of average people is spent on education, then comes the practical part of your life, where you have to start a new family and then comes fulfilling the needs of your family, eventually in that most part of your life is gone, You start your life in a race, from the day first you’re in a race, where everyone is putting their best to be there, the place where everyone desires to be, Some can keep up, Some fall apart, Most will even Climb over you or even roll over you, for one common purpose, Success, What is real Success? Is it to be financially stable,  I don’t think so, The question is what it takes to be successful in this world, There are two ways
1.The Right Way
2.The Wrong Way
Now a thing which i think is wrong can be the right thing for someone else, We can blame the society for making us choose the wrong way way or for being who we are, thats actually quite right, Society has to play a big part in every aspect of humans life, But everyone has the ability to differentiate between good and bad, its in humans nature,The question is who to be blamed, Yourself, or the Society
All depends on your mental strength, Do you have the capability to live in a harsh environment and still be successful, the answer to is Yes, You have put yourself out there and push your limits, and Never be afraid to take chances, its not always about making the correct decision, you don’t know if that I’ll turn out to be the way to want it to be, Nothing in this world is certain,
What matters is you learn from you mistake, Sometimes you even fall, but you gotta get up and keep putting yourself out there, Regardless of what the world says, Believe in yourself, Have Faith, and Never lose hope,

Never give up on your dreams

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